Amely Rose german fashionblogger in Bonn between the cherryblossom – fashioneditorial – spring outfit - kirschblüten altstadt Amely Rose german fashionblogger in Bonn between the cherryblossom – fashioneditorial – spring outfit - kirschblüten altstadtAll blogs post the same… good, that I am no blogger.

Well, I have a blog – and Instagram. And yes, I mention it like once or twice in any conversation. Perhaps I choose the most instagrammable food when I order something at a restaurant, and I might be guilty of arranging the table set up to match the aesthetic. Okay, I’ve moved entire tables every now and then – to an entirely different restaurant – at the other end of the city – because the table cloth fits the wall color. And yeeaaah, I might have brought along my own food – disgusting to taste, but fantastic to look at. Because lets be real, a messy, greasy kebap probably doesn’t get me to a thousand likes.

But to make things clear, You Only Live Online.
I’m living so online, that my latest Instagram post looks more similar to the 23485930572 other #fashionistas and #influencers, than my own reflection in the mirror. I’m living so online, that I double tap the beautiful sweater of the next to me on the train, waiting for the tags to pop up and buy it right ahead. I’m living so online, that a voice in my head started developing, correcting myself that “that’s pronounced bal-en-si-AA-guh (Balenciaga)”. I’m so online that I get upset and disappointed when I meet somebody in #reallife and he actually looks like he does in his profile picture. I am so online that I love children so much – until I push them aside to get them out of my shot. I am so online that I only mention something meaningful, if I announced it with #realtalk. I’m living so online that I proudly wear the color of my generation of Millennials. It’s Millennial Pink and if you didn’t know this – somebody show me the door ‘cause I’d like to leave. Or in my time – the “X” in the right corner. I am so online that I’m scared of warning waves, though I’d volunteer to become an unpaid, walking ad pillar and free billboard #notsponsored. I am so Facebook that I have three thousand friends, but celebrate my birthday with no more than two. Me and that annoying voice trying to break the ice with: “it’s pronounced LOO-iVWEE-ton” (Louis Vuitton).
Amely Rose german fashionblogger in Bonn between the cherryblossom – fashioneditorial – spring outfit - kirschblüten altstadt Amely Rose german fashionblogger in Bonn between the cherryblossom – fashioneditorial – spring outfit - kirschblüten altstadtI am so online, I (don’t) have a #restingbitchface, because I have emojis. The only thing I admire of reality is it’s high definition, resolution and color depth. Nice graphic card universe, gotta hand it to you. Will Instagram get that upgrade soon or…? I am so snapchat, that sometimes when I wake up I panic and look for my dog ears. I am so online that I don’t tape my webcam. I need the stage, I need the audience – even if it’s just a FBI guy.

All blogs post the same stuff – good god I’m happy that I’m different. That’s why here are some beautiful pictures in front of cherry trees. And guys – you can’t imagine how exhausting it was to photoshop the other bloggers out of them.
Amely Rose german fashionblogger in Bonn between the cherryblossom – fashioneditorial – spring outfit - kirschblüten altstadt Amely Rose german fashionblogger in Bonn between the cherryblossom – fashioneditorial – spring outfit - kirschblüten altstadt

Ricarda M, beauty, review, pflegeprodukte, vegane_creme, secrets_of_beauty, Amely_rose,Hello summer!
Hello long evenings outside at sundown.
Hello short dresses and vibrant colors.
Hello sand on the skin and salt in the hair.
And most of all – hello light make up.

When you take a look at the calendar you’ll notice that summer is right around the corner. And following the rising temperature it’s time to shed the layers of textile that cover our bodies. This doesn’t just count for clothes, but also for your skin. By going without heavy make-up that vanishes so quickly, with every drop of sweat. But if you’re into make-up you’ll know the challenge that is “no make-up-make up”. Because besides the expectation, you’ll need a bunch of products to look fresh and natural – all day long. But there’s an easier way to that. The right skin care prevents problems and takes care of anything make-up tries to hide. And that’s why I’ll show you the amazing Secrets of Beauty by Ricarda M.

 

Secret of Beauty
The magic of this line lies in the word “hyaluronan” – at least to some part. Because this range of products is packed with highly efficient ingredients, that work in perfect harmony. Here are my five highlights for your all-inclusive wellness feeling.
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Immediate Lifting Effect!
The Anti Aging Boost 24/7 Face Cream is basically like the soft focus Photoshop tool in a 200ml pot. This moisturizer protects the entire 100% of the light spectrum (no matter if UVA, UVB, blue light or infrared) with photoprotector, extracted from the blossoms of the butterfly lilac. This also protects the skin from again and reduced hyper-pigmentation (discolorations like freckles or aging spots) up to 70%. The lotion is the ideal protection from natural and artificial light and shows a significant reduction of wrinkles (about 53% after 2 weeks of regular use and 57,8% after 4 weeks).

Application: You can use the lotion in the morning and in the evening, spread evenly on face, chin and neck.
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The clearer of the future!
This guarantees the Skin Refiner Clearing Water, coming in a beautiful 400ml pump bottle. One of the exciting ingredients is the extract of the red clover blossom. It balances the state of your skin and refines the pores (reducing the up to 80% within one month). Another result with regular application lies in matt, glowing and even skin. It also reduces redness and soothes any irritations, to calm the skin. As a highlight, it increases the antioxidant protection by 57%.

Application: You can use the Skin Refiner Clearing Water up to three times per day on your skin.
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A true wonder of moisturization!
That’s what the Hydro Boost Dermafiller Serum (60ml) is all about. It works IMMEDIATELY and increases your skins moisture by 91% right after application.

Application: Apply a few drops of the moisture boost in the morning and evening, gently massaging it into the face, chin and neck area. Tip: It works ideally right after your daily skin lotion.
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The rEYEvulotion!
A true revolution comes with the Redesign Eye Contour Cream in a 60ml dispenser. The cream improves sustainably the quality of the entire eye area. Plus it reduces wrinkles or crowsfeet visibly! Short things short – the thin, fragile skin around the eyes is getting stronger and younger within only two weeks. The treatment improves the visible youth of the eye contour and builds up the entire substance of your skin.

Application: Gently pat the cream around your eye area.
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Stop the Wrinkle!T
he last little helper is the
Special 3D Wrinkle Killer. But don’t worry, it’s not as aggressive as it sounds – and of course not to your skin. He just wants to care. And that’s what the Wrinkle Killer does best, it basically works like natural botox – whilst improving the relaxation of the muscles. It smooths the relief of the skin and fills wrinkles from within, especially around your forehead and eye area. With immediate results!

Application: The Wrinkle Killer can be applied up to three times a day. On the forehead, the eye area and wherever wrinkles are visible.

 

This skin care line is ideal for any skin. Soft, delicate and caring, but with an immediate, visible result. I already recommended the great Vitamin C care range by Ricarda M (you’ll find that here) and just like then, I am absolutely in love with the products. What makes Ricarda M’s products so special is the philosophy behind it that you can feel in anything I just talked about: Highest quality on highest, international, scientific standard.

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I am the shy type. This kind of girl that’s the loudest on a party – bare your teeth before you get bitten. But when the conversations change over to emotional topic I am the first one to leave the bunch, right before the first tears start to fall. Showing weakness in front of people I barely know? Never! Huge personalities make me feel uneasy and my answer: arrogance. The moment I whip my hair back and throw a cheeky „I know that I look good“ at you and your compliment – that’s the moment you placed me in dilemma. Showing that something affects me feels like a flaw in the first second. And I remember every one of these moments – for my entire life. Because after I rack my brain, if I was too harsh. This constant pulling between „overthinking“ and „keeping people at distance“ also tears my ego. You don’t want to be the group’s prick, but you also actually don’t want to be just „a part“ of the group.

But my worst attribute? I always appear as a pair! I feel touched and astonished regarding the #metoo campagne and marvel at all those amazing and brave women and men that pluck up courage, to speak the pain they’ve experienced. I want to mention a difficult topic too, that affects many girls, maybe it doesn’t seem as painful as sexual assault or any kind of violence in the first moment, but it shaped my past 25 years (my entire life till now) in a negative way. I always appear as a pair! Ever since I can remember my life centres around my live-in lover. My prince charming who will enter my life and save me. But from what? The important and big moments in my life were overshadowed by lovesickness. Either I was looking for Mr. Right, had to handle a break-up, was unhappy in my actual relationship or analyzed whatsapp messages with my friends. When everything was perfect (as perfect as it can be) in my love-life I throw myself in my friend’s love-life and crises. WE always appear as a pair! In case I don’t hold Mr. Right’s hand, it’s my best friend’s hand I hold while suffering with her. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate Armor and I had many lovely moments in relationships and shared beautiful times with lovers. And I don’t want to miss any of those moments and hope to experience many more.

But I’m not sure, if these moments weren’t even worse. Because a partner and relationship can turn into some kind of handbreak without noticing it. I catch myself checking my boy’s appointment diary before I confirm a party on the weekend. Banish dream-destination slowly but surely just because „the other one“ is broke and you don’t want to travel on your own. You don’t move to your dream-city or take a job/ university place, because you don’t want to break up or be separated. You pass on a beloved pet, because your partner doesn’t like cats, wear THIS special skirt, because the other gender prefers it more on your body and watch series that you don’t even like. Short – you live your life for others.
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Why did he cancel the date? Why didn’t he keep in mind what my birthday present wish was? Why does he spend exactly this day with his mates? And you analyze every trifle till it turns into huge heartache. Do my friends like him? Do I still have friends after I only exist as a „we“ (me and my partner)? And most of all: Why doesn’t he pick me up at night? That one time I came home late, this racked my brain. It wasn’t the fear to be ambushed, that boosted my thoughts, but my pure fury. Why does he assume that I could come home at night on my own? Whose fault is it that I always expect, that my partner takes care of me everytime and that I take care of him nonstop? That I need all these instagramable love confessions and compare myself to others without even contemplating what I truly want and need. Put others wellbeing over mine, not because of unconditional love but as some type of pawn – to demand it back during times like this.

I push myself (unknowingly) into the position of a little, helpless girl. I’m disappointed when my partner doesn’t fret over me, solves my problems, doesn’t answer directly on my whatsapp messages. My luck is depending on him!

It used to bother me, that my partner didn’t fret over me. I hated that he didn’t wish he’d known I was hurting so he could drive hours to get me and that he didn’t promise to never let me go anywhere alone again. But now I grasp, that this was a gift, too. Independence! And I denied this independence with my attitude slowly but steady. But I promise you, your partner knows that even if things go wrong for you often, you’ll always be okay in the end. Because he belives in you and you should do so, too! And now I tell you – men – don’t fight the dragons and rescue us from the tower. Hand us the sword and tell us „I’m here for you, but you’ve got this.“ We like being rescued. We like the sympathy and the cosiness of being wrapped in cotton wool. But you don’t have to be „needed for help“ for us to love you. And we don’t have to be „in need of help“ to be loved. And I tell you – women – it’s not normal or romantic to be in need of your partner. And slowly you will learn, what it’s like to be okay on your own. You don’t need to become someone’s better half, because you are no half.

Go girl!
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